
Grown up at last! Well Somewhat!
Shortly after high school, I joined the Navy. Despite my low grades in band, I enjoyed music and my music teacher, a former Navy musician, encouraged me to apply for the Navy School of Music.
With his recommendation, I was flown to the Great Lakes Naval Training Center near Chicago, Illinois for an audition and was accepted on probation. It was a smart move by the Navy. If I did not do well in the school, they got to keep me for other duties. If they simply failed me, they had to send me home and lose their investment in flying me to Chicago.
It was while in the school in Washington, DC that I made my first truly responsible choice, probably in my life. One evening I went with friends to a religious revival to meet some girls. That never happened, but I ended up joining the church.
Shortly afterwards, my private instrument teacher (I played a trumpet) introduced me to another religion (both were Christian denominations) and raised some serious questions about what I really believed. I decided I needed to find out what I did believe and why and embarked on a several month examination of both Christian and non-Christian religions. After much study and prayer, not quaitities I had ever before exibited, I chose the religion my trumpet instructor introduced me to despite the fact, it was the only one that required me to give up alcohol, tobacco, and even coffee and tea.
Obviously that was a huge decision for me and one which has proven to be the best desicion I have ever made. For the first time in my life I had made an thoughtful, informed, and prayerful choice and accepted a life style that required of me disciplines I had never before exercised.
Although I did not recognize it at the time, I had exercised an essential character trait for making important choices, and had embarked in a process of developing valuable lifeskills that would greatly influence my later life for good. Unfortunaely, I have learned that making a good choice once, does not a good choice maker make. The fact is that most of what I teach at Choiceskills has taken me a lifetime of study, prayer and experience to understand. And, as you know I am not a young man.
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