Thoughts on Happiness for Homeschoolers

The Nature of Happiness

Since my last post, I  have given some thought to happiness and can truthfully say I have never deliberately chosen to do anything I knew would make me unhappy.

But, I have done things that have made me unhappy, almost always in violation of the following quote from Benjamin Franklin.

“There is no happiness then but in a virtous and self-approving conduct.”

This suggests to me an important line of thought to keep in mind when teaching children. Hopefully, they will learn to be smarter than I have sometimes been.

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Homeschool Curriculum: Essential American History Lesson

Quotes
Alexis de Tocquerville, Benjamin Franklin, John Adams,

James Madison, Edmund Burke and Thomas Jefferson

What ever homeschool curriculum you use, I believe you will find the following quotes most valuable when teaching American History.

Alexis de Tocquerville
“America is great because she is good. If America ceases to be good, America will cease to be great.”

Benjamin Franklin
 ”Only a virtuous people are capable of freedom. As nations become corrupt and vicious, they have more need of masters. ”

John Adams
“Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate  to the government of any other. ”

James Madison
“To suppose that any form of government will secure liberty or happiness without any virtue and the people ,is ato miracle idea.”

Edmund Burke
“Society cannot exist unless a controlling power upon the will and appetite is placed somewhere; and the less of it there is within, the more there must be without. It is ordained in the eternal constitution of things, that men of intemperate minds cannot be free. Their passions forge their fetters.”

Thomas Jefferson
“The price of freedom is eternal vigilence.”

These quotes open a wide range of discussion opportunities with your children about the things that matter most in their lives. As Benjamin Franklin also wrote: “There is no happiness then but in a virtous and self-approving conduct.”
Benjamain Franklin’s The Art of Virtue, p.35

i invite you to visit our web page on how to enrich your homeschool currlculum.

 

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A Lesson for Homeschoolers from Poor Richard

There is a one liner in Poor Richard’s  Almanack of 1732 I find very interesting and quite instructive. Poor Richard (Benjamin Franklin) writes:

“Is there anything Men take more pains about than to render themselves unhappy?”

The following quote appeared on page 74 in the February 2002 edition of Scientific American.

“Perhaps the most ironic aspect of the struggle for survival is how easily organisms can be harmed by that which they desire. The trout is caught by the fisherman’s lure, the mouse by cheese. But, at least these creatures have the excuse that bait and cheese look like sustenance. Humans seldom have that consolation. The temptations that can disrupt their lives are pure indulgences. No one has to drink alcohol, for example. Realizing when a diversion has gotten out of control is one of the great challenges in life.”

Perhaps none of us are wholly exmpt from over indulgence resulting from poor judgment. I have my share of sunburns and discomfort from over eating. And it has taken me more than one experience to learn the folly of doing these things. And for a couple of years I was a smoker. I leaned at an early age, the truth of Mark Twain’s wittism when he said, “Quitting smoking is easy. I’ve done it hundreds of times.” Fortunately I was able to get a big enough why as a young man to prevent me from becoming part of the following statistic.

“Cigarette smoking causes about 1 of every 5 deaths in the United States Each Year.”

So what does this have to do with you as a homeschooler. The principle is that we must teach our young to be careful what they want. Interestingly, the Scientific American article referenced above had to do with Television addiction. Go figure!

To learn how to teach your children I invite you to visit our homeschooler web page and our web page on The Stink’n Think’n Gang.

 

 

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Homeschoolers: Helping Children Understand the Why Behind “Thou Shalt Not Steal.”

There Is A Why

We live in a day when many seem to have forgotten the why behind the commandment, “Thou Shalt Not Steal.”

We also live in a day when simply knowing right from wrong is not enough. It is essential for children to understand the why behind every moral issue they face in life or the confusion of thought so prevalent today is likely to take hold.

As homeschoolers, you have the opportunity to take your children to this new level of uunderstanding.

Today I have posted a video at http://www.choiceskills.tv in which I share with you a couple of stories from “The Seven C’s of Thinking Clearly” I believe you will find helpful in teaching this important why.

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Homeschoolers Teleconference Series Invitation

ANNOUNCING: Jump Start 2012 Teleconference Series for Homeschoolers

The series will explore opportunities and challenges in homeschooling and will feature one or more special guests with extensive experience in homeschooling

You will find these highly interactive teleconferences fun, interesting, and informative. Sponsored by George Rogers of ChoiceSkills and Hosted by Dr. Clint Rogers, Phd. Educational Psychology and Technology, these teleconferences feature a technology that allows both large group discussions and break-out sessions into smaller groups.

Discuss the greatest challenges you are facing in 2012, and explore with your peers powerful solutions to meet them.

SPECIAL INVITATION

You are invited to join us for our 1stteleconference on February 8, 2012 when we will be discussing the question“What Do You Want Most from Your Children’s Education?” This is a little different perspective than the question  “Why are You Homeschooling?”

You will have the opportunityto share what you are currently doing to achieve this objective, what’s working well and what needs you may have. In this way, your experiences will be helpful to others and theirs will be helpful to you.

·Who:Home School Parents
·When:Wednesday, February 8th, 2:00pm MST for 60 minutes
Wh
ere:From Your own Phone- Unique Call-in Number Provided
·Why:Perhaps your most important call in preparation for 2012 – interactive exchange of ideas with
others who share common challenges and opportunities – very practical ideas.

Participation is FREE – But Registration is Limited

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P.S. For your participation in this very innovative call –sharing your insights and perspectives, you will receive 3 powerful audio stories that exemplify how even one single idea can change a child’s life forever.

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The Real Reason Homeschoolers Homeschool!

The Top Ten Reasons

1.  Give Child a Better Education
2.  Religious Reasons
3.  Family Reasons
4  Develop Character
5.  Object to What Schools are Teaching
6.  School Does Not Challenge Child
7.  Other Problems with Available Schools
8.  Student Behavior Problems at School
9.  Child Has Special Needs Not Met At School
10.  Child Bullied At School

The Real Reason

What do all these reasons have in common? Is there some underlying desire for their children that is more important to homeschoolers than any of the above? I believe there is.

Actually Benjamin Franklin suggested the answer. You’ll find it by clicking on Benjamin Franklin’s Counsel to Homeschoolers. Actually  it was his counsel to anyone who works with youth.

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A Character Trait Every Child Needs to Learn

SELF DENIAL

As any parent knows self denial is not a character trait that children are born with, nor are they quick to learn. As a result, large numbers reach adulthood without the self-discipline necessary to stay out of trouble.

An example is the tendency of individuals and organizations, including our federal government, to spend beyond their means. As result, many individuals, families, and institutions, including state and federal government, have serious financial problems, frequently resulting in bankruptcy, loss of homes and other serious problems.

At the individual level, credit cards have made it easy for people to buy things they can’t afford failing to recognize that for every dollar they borrow have to pay back considerably more the  dollar they borrowed, often paying in excess of 15% per annum.. The reason credit card companies make their cards easy to get because it’s highly profitable to them.  So profitable, they can afford to take substantial losses from people who are unable to pay. In essence, these are greed driven actions on the part of the lender and at minimum, poor judgment on the part of the borrower.

On the federal level the habit spending beyond their means poses a serious threat to our economy and well-being of every citizen. Let me cite a couple of numbers to illustrate the problem. In 2011 , the federal government is expected to receive about $2.1 trillion in revenue, but  its expenses are projected at nearly 3.8 trillion dollars, leaving  a one-year   deficit of $1.62 trillion, which represents 29,400  dollars per household, an amount greater than 37% of the households in our society earn. So the questions are, ” How is this debt to ever be repaid?”  and “What will be the consequences if it is not?”

The importance of this discussion to you as a homeschooler is two fold. How do you help your children develop the emotional, social and thinking skills to enable them to avoid incuring personal financial problems and how to  survive and even thrive when difficult economic conditions exist in our society.

I invite you to check out our character trait and homeschooler web pages.

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What Homeschoolers Need to Understand about Keynesian Economics

     Homeschool Curriculum and Keynesian Economics

The chances are pretty high that you have not thought of, or even had a reason, to teach your children about Keynesian economics. I didn’t encounter Keynesian economics until I was in an economics class in college.

The idea behind Keynesian economics is that governments can stimulate a sluggish economy through deficit spending. By pumping more money into the economy, people will have more money to spend and the economy will rebound creating enough federal revenues through taxes to offset the deficit.

Interestingly enough the  idea has more or less worked in the past, largely because of rapid population growth and a robust economy driven by technological advances.  It did stimulate the economy in many cases, but our leaders found other uses for the increased revenues than paying down the debt. Now, in our current economic crisis, Keynesian economics is not working, and in fact, is making the crisis more severe. In subsequent posts,  I’ll be talking more about this important issue.

For the moment, I simply want to focus on why it is important for you to understand its implications for you as a homeschooler and what you need to be teaching your children at a very early age.

In essence, as a nation, we will be passing on to your children and my grandchildren a financial burden they may not be able to bear.  My generation, and yours as well, has had neither the will  or the wisdom to effectively deal with the problem.  And, all indications are that many of the rising generation are pretty much used to getting what they want without having to worry too much how to pay for it.

So, where will they get either the will of the wisdom if we simply teach them think and do as we currently think and do? The answer is that we need to help them develop emotional, social and thinking skills at a much higher level than frankly, most of us possess. Skills, not likely found in whatever homeschool curriculum you may be using.

I invite you to visit our webpages Homeschoolers and Homeschool Curriculum to learn  more about what we are doing at Choiceskills to help children develop these skills and I invite you to become a ongoing part of the discussion by subscibing to this blog and sharing your own ideas.

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A New Found Character Trait and Essential Lifeskills

Grown up at last! Well Somewhat!

Shortly after high school, I joined the Navy. Despite my low grades in band, I enjoyed music and my music teacher, a former Navy musician, encouraged me to apply for the Navy School of Music.

With his recommendation, I was flown to the Great Lakes Naval Training Center near Chicago, Illinois for an audition and was accepted on probation. It was a smart move by the Navy. If I did not do well in the school, they got to keep me for other duties. If they simply failed me, they had to send me home and lose their investment in flying me to Chicago. 

It was while in the school in Washington, DC that I made my first truly responsible choice, probably in my life. One evening I went with friends to a religious revival to meet some girls. That never happened, but I ended up joining the church.

Shortly afterwards, my private instrument teacher (I played a trumpet) introduced me to another religion (both were Christian denominations) and raised some serious questions about what I really believed. I decided I needed to find out what I did believe and why and embarked on a several month examination of both Christian and non-Christian religions. After much study and prayer, not quaitities I had ever before exibited, I chose the religion my trumpet instructor introduced me to despite the fact, it was the only one that required me to give up alcohol, tobacco, and even coffee and tea. 

Obviously that was a huge decision for me and one which has proven to be the best desicion I have ever made. For the first time in my life I had made an thoughtful, informed, and prayerful choice and accepted a life style that required of me disciplines I had never before exercised.

Although I did not recognize it at the time, I had exercised an essential character trait for making important choices, and had embarked in a process of developing valuable lifeskills that would greatly influence my later life for good. Unfortunaely, I have learned that making a good choice once, does not a good choice maker make. The fact is that most of what I teach at Choiceskills has taken me a lifetime of study, prayer and experience to understand. And, as you know I am not a young man.

Click on the following links to visit the character trait page and lifeskills page on this (the choiceskills) web site.

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Graduation from High School: Sort of

 What Homeschoolers Need to Understand About Teen Age Boys

In my last post, I referred to my 11th grade report card. The fact is that my last two years of high school were very precarious.

My parents, my teachers and the school principle were all relieved to see me graduate. But, any thinking person, which I was not at the time, must have realized my diploma was not a recogintion of any accomplishment on my part, but rather school officials simply getting rid of a toothache. Actually, I didn’t realize it myself until just now!

During the last two years of high school I took up smoking and was involved in teen age drinking. It seemed there were always individuals who were willing to help us get beer and other forms of alcohol, often paying for it themselves. Fortunately, I had a mother that stayed up until I got home at night and knowing I had to face her when I got home gave me a measure of restraint I might not have otherwise had.

Another piece of good fortune for me was that when I got drunk, it made me sick and I spent a good deal of time in foul bathrooms with my head over a toilet. Not pleasant! Not pleasant at all!

Finally, in our small town, we knew virtually nothing of marijuana, cocaine or other drugs. Had I been exposed, I am sure I would have been stupid enough to try them, and may not have been so lucky as I was with alcohol. As you can see, I got off to a wobbly start as I made the transition to adulthood.

Now, I know one of the reasons homeschoolers homeschool is to asssure that your children don’t fall into these kinds of behaviors. But even if you are wholly successful, your children will have to associate with others who are more like I was than they are. And, as they move into adulthood, they will need more protection than simply knowing right from wrong.

I invite you to visit our web page for homeschoolers to learn more about how to help your children to develop that protection.

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